July 7th
Today was impossible and I was ready to call it quits...I think we all were.
We had a very tearful depart from Fiwagoh this morning and headed to Grace of God chidlren's home.
First of all, we were told it was only a 2 hour drive at the most. Everytime our sweet driver Daniel called them they said we were 20min away. 4 hours later we arrive. The pastor met us at the gravel road and he drove us a long drive down to the school on a dirt road. He said if it rains that it is immpossible to drive on. Guess what......thunderclouds started to loom right as he said that. Come to find out the people at the church thought they would take us on the scenic route. Yes, Kenya is the prettiest place I have ever seen. However, the roads are terrible and we could have done without 2 extra hours of driving.
The whole thing was disorganized from the beginning. Visting Orphans has never sent a team to Kenya so they do not have reliable relationships with some of these contacts. We really don't know what to expect at any of these places we are visiting and staying in Kenya and we have been very fortunate so far. This was quite a bit different. FYI...we all know that outhouses are gross but outhouses in Africa are pretty rough. We have had to use them more than we anticipated. The kids at this orphanage/school did a little singing and dancing for us while they served us lunch at 2:30. It seemed like the whole town came out to see us. As we were in there it started to downpour. Our driver told us that we needed to leave if we ever wanted to get to our hotel in the daylight and more importantly, not get stuck on the mud road. We felt awful at first because we just arrived, ate their lunch and now we were leaving. After we spent some time with them, we saw that God protected us and was watching out for us. This place seemed “off” from the beginning. There was even the question as to whether these kids were even orphans or if it was just a government run school. It was the first place I felt like our skin color was a dollar sign to them.
They reluctantly let us leave. Our bus driver did an amazing job on that awful muddy road and I was almost in tears a few times when we were sliding and tipping. I thought for sure we were going to tip. There is 22 of us plus our driver. All of our luggage is strapped to the top and so it makes it pretty top heavy on these bad roads.
3 of the church members drove in our bus with us to the town of Eldoret where they booked a hotel for us. Seriously? This place was scary. There were people everywhere and I did not see one woman. The hotel was so disgusting and the way to access it was through the scariest back alley I have ever seen. The people with us were shocked that we didn't want to stay there. We all spoke up and said we wanted out of here ASAP. We are such a target wherever we go. Even if you didn't see 22 white women on the bus, you could just look on top of the bus at our luggage and know we were from the states.
Our strange friends would not take no for an answer. They said things like....”what is wrong? Do you need to stay alone and not in a large hotel? We will find you a new one nearby”....and my personal favorite....”we already paid the deposit”.
They couldn't get it through their heads that we were scared and putting ourselves in a dangerous spot and that our luggage was surely to get stolen. Not to mention the fact that we were all women staying by ourselves. They didn't tell us that this city is also known for a lot of fighting and public disturbances between two different people groups that don't like eachother.
The last visitors they had were in 2008 so they were desperate for us to stay. If we skipped out on the nasty hotel and went to search for a new one, that one could be nasty too and then we would have nowhere to stay and it would be dark (never wise to venture out at night but especially in Africa). We all made the decision to just go back to Fiwagoh. They were still not getting it. “If you go back to Fiwagoh that will be such a long drive for you to come back in the morning”. We are not coming back. Then the pleading began. We threw some money at them and then their care for us actually seeing the children dissipated. That was like my 12th clue that I didn't trust these people. We had a bag of donations for them but it was on top of the bus. We realized then that they were sticking around until they got it. They said they would drive with us to Fiwagoh so we could unload our luggage and get it for them. Nope. We pulled over at a gas station and got it down for them and they can keep the luggage it was in.
Pastor Benson graciously said we can stay there tonight and tomorrow night. This is such a blessing. Now we can just go straight to the airport Saturday and not stay at one more unsure place. Fiwagoh has been the nicest place and we are hoping to be able to bless them tomorrow. We are going to go shopping for food and cleaning supplies. While the kids are in school we are going to clean their bathrooms and hopefully have some fruit waiting for them.
We have been driving longer than anticipated and I think we have driven at least 6 hours today. What a waste of time. We could have been hanging at Fiwagoh and helping out where we could. It is now 9:15pm. We are all so excited to see the kids at Fiwagoh but hope we are not keeping them awake. Last time the older boys grabbed our luggage and ran to our rooms. We are so thankful we would sleep in what we are wearing and deal with luggage tomorrow.
We are 5 mintues away and the police pulled us over to check our bus. One guy went in the back and flirted and another one talked to our driver in Swahili. He asked him for some tea. Apparantly, he was asking for us to give him money and that is the code words police use. Our driver assured them that all our money was above with our luggage. Then he asked where we were staying so he could come on the bus and go with us! What? Our driver Daniel told him we were all lesbians and did not like men and that is why we are all traveling together without men! He quickly walked away and let us go. This place is lawless when it wants to be. I will continue to be praying for the leadership of this country, of Uganda and Africa. Without the raising up of Godly leaders, this continent will never change.
All of the kids are still waiting up for us and it is now 9:30pm. We are all so tired!!! I would pay money to be on a flight back home right now. I am missing my family. Good night.